I am more lost and confused than ever and I can see the energy between me and the guy sinking as my energy have started to become more fearful to letting go. Abhor what is evil. As a result, finally starting my dream business ! Teaching is done in sermons, in Sunday school for children and adults, in womens Bible studies, in mens Bible studies, in the Lords Supper meeting, at Vacation Bible School, and even in our homes as we teach our children. Theres also that tricky balance isnt there, of trusting or intuiting what it is we are meant to change or control within the present,and what we are meant to surrender into for a wider or longer reaching plan or lesson. He is the way to the Father (John 14:6), the only plank on which we may escape, the only door by which we may enter (John 10:9). We are. 1. In the garden, the crushing weight of what was about to come hit Jesus with the full force of its expectation. People are distancing, I am feeling the need to step away, my knee is giving out which is because of the external and I am also thinking internal pressure that I have been putting myself under and now I have to find new ways to move. the first step in a transformed life is God's sovereign, unconditional, irresistible work of saving grace in a person's life the salvation of the Ethiopian Eunuch and the salvation of Saul clearly demonstrate that God sovereignly works in the lives of spiritually dead sinners to raise them to eternal life Well, its such a deep relief and reassurance that I understand / accept this phenomenal transition taking place. THANKS SO MUCH CONNIE!! Click here for Part 5. O be infinitely careful here; your soul depends upon it. Sometimes non-living things can portray some of the above characteristics, but a living being consists of all. It is one that gives to the needs of others in the body. You have really gave me the answers that I needed to know about this transformation process. . 5:12 and 1 Tim 3:4, 5, 12; and 5:17 in reference to elders. And we must add good habits, spend time in prayer, and worship. Or start one yourself. So I said: Woe is me, for I am undone! It is a process guided by something much deeperand it falls outside the realms of logic and reason. They may challenge you and the way you are used to doing things. Instead he regarded Christian living as a, of spiritual change accomplished by the work of the Holy Spirit (, If you only hear two sermons a year, then you can. We may resist the growth andopportunities we are being called towards. live transformed lives, but that this will not happen automatically. We are in this dynamic with others where we expect them to make us feel how we want to feel and to be the source of our love. How To Manage This: Step away. Therefore, keep your eyes upon your hearts as you go along. Matthew 5:3 Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. It feels like collectively we are all shifting and rising through a big phase again, and also thats combined with what we are healing within our own circumstances too! We can discover so much about ourselves. C. E. B. Cranfield comments that the passive voice of be transformed shows that this transformation is not the Christians own doing but the work of the Holy Spirit (Romans, Vol. Instead i tried to control everything and I couldnt let go. do your duty. Even if you want to attract something new into your life, you act as if it's already there, instead of focusing on the lack or scarcity (so you're more likely to think: I'm only going to do . Love it! You need to hear the Word of God taught on a weekly basis. He is my life and source, and as such, all that I do is done with the intent of pleasing Him. I also feel like I do not have any friends anymore. You are definitely not alone beautiful x, I am in this period of transition too. The idea of embracing the learnings that are present is something that so resonates with me right now and Ill definitely be keeping that in my heart as I go through my own transformation. We dont know what will happen in the next hour, let alone the next day. And he touched my mouth with it, and said: Behold, this has touched your lips; Your iniquity is taken away, And your sin purged.. Something is shifting. Certain characteristics of a transformed life is displayed when a person is converted: #1 We turn to CHRIST, the only Mediator between God and man (1 Tim 2:5). He moves through catching the sight of the beauty of God (I saw the Lord), coming to grips with what his lack (I am a man of unclean lips), into brokenness (being undone), but that is not where he stays. After all, if Jesus learned obedience through His suffering, you can rest assured that you may need to as well. The actions that used to create certain results, are no longer reaping the same rewards. He desires holiness, as one well said, only as a bridge to heaven, and inquires earnestly what is the least that will serve his turn; and if he can get but so much as may bring him to heaven, this is all he cares for. The more I yield and relinquish control the better it feels then the fear subsides and Ilove that as it has no place with ne anymorehonestly this is a huge challenge but I now believe in ir. There is a great confidence to share your inner struggles, pains, and wounding that comes not because you are confident in yourself, but because you trust the One who remains faithful. I began to learn that the breaking of the outer man is designed by God to launch you into your calling, "Suffering arising from anxiety, in which the soul adds, to the cross imposed by the hand of God, an agitated resistance, and a sort of unwillingness to suffer, such troubles arise only because we love to ourselves." No longer am I concerned about fulfilling a purpose, but rather, I just go about doing what I know brings pleasure to the heart of the Father. How To Manage This:Let them go. Dont be wise in your opinion. This, says Paul, is not correct Christian behavior (p. 375). They will not accept the salvation of Christ as He intends it; they divide it here. you do not get the gospel. I am smack dab in the middle of a transition and all the steps you have described, just happened. The primary source of Grace Evangelical Society's funding is through charitable contributions. The effort of aiming after high things could lead easily to a self-presentation that stresses ones own knowledge, skill, and insight. Maybe he or she is hooked on opioids. It is about learning how to connect with yourself and find what you are seeking within you. Because I am a man of unclean lips, And I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; For my eyes have seen the King, The Lord of hosts.. have you no reproof in your mouth? He adds, This transformation is not something which is brought about in an instant; it has to be continually repeated, or that, it is a process which has to go on all the time the Christian is in this life (p. 607). Open your heart to yourself and begin to love and appreciate who you are. Its like Ive disappeared through an invisible door and a whirlwind is creating a inside down world inside me. Share with me in the comments below. If so, then it is well. He receives with all acceptance the Word which convinces him of any duty that he knew not, or minded not before, or which uncovers any sin that lay hidden before. 2. Cranfield suggests that Paul is probably referring to those in a church who tend the sick, relieve the poor, or care for the aged and disabled (p. 627). Kate, many of us experience it with finances as it really stops us in our tracks and forces us to re-assess and perhaps change our course of action. Jesus died for others not because he trusted them, but because he lived in the bosom of God. My husband and I wouldnt have separated if things were going well so its definitely a period of self reflection and transformation. II Corinthians 4:8-9 We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed. God sent me here, you really taught me so much just by reading this today. Something new and incredible always arises from this process. What the Transformed Life Looks Like (Romans 12:3-21), 1.It is a life of serving others in the church (Rom 12:3-8), Humility is necessary for us to serve. Watch the message here: More sermons and info on GraceChapel.org Sermon Transcript: In discerning am I not quick to condemn others, but rather, in wisdom I respond and attempt to convey the heart of the Father. Mercy is also not called a spiritual gift elsewhere. Right now, you may be in the middle of your journey. As the focus of my life becomes his heart, the intentions of my life begin to change. Just reading this 2016 feels as though years worth of change is happening all at once this post is so comforting thanks !!! Does it not carry you to your family, and show you the charge of God, and the souls of your children who are neglected there? shall this soul die in his careless neglect of God and of eternity, and you altogether remain silent? xoxo, I would have loved to know this myself too Melissa. This follows logically from verse 17. Awake, O conscience! Thank you, Thank you for this beautifully written piece. Sometimes just turning off the lights and sitting with a candle until you feel your self settle a little, is also enough to help create some inner space x. I love what you said about what happens if we react with fear to these periods of transformation. Although I dont know what to expect, Im willing to expect the unexpected. 5:19-21). For a while I thought it was menopause, or depression, it very destabilizing. When we begin to grasp the incredible potential of suffering, suffering becomes less like suffering and more like being with the One who suffered all things. It speaks so loudly to me at this moment. This article is an edited version of "The Nature of Conversion" in Joseph Alleine's book, "An Alarm to the Unconverted". Recording Of The Transform Your Life Call, Practising Self Love with Michelle Marie McGrath (AR #15), How To Feel More Trust In Your Relationships. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing. His heart once said, as they said to the spouse, What is your beloved more than another? (Song 5:9). Whoever loves life, let him beware here. All living organisms are made up of one or more cells, which are considered the fundamental units of life. So beautiful to hear it has been supportive for you xx, This literally came at the perfect time. I cannot enter into a deeper understanding of the Kingdom of Heaven unless I understand my own poverty. Thank you! I know that there will still be a lot of emotion pouring from from time to time but I am no longer going to run from these feelings. He would not be satisfied with so much holiness as might save him from hellbut desires the highest degree. Instead he regarded Christian living as a process of spiritual change accomplished by the work of the Holy Spirit (Romans, p. 358). Tip #1 for living a transformed life: 1. A transformed life is led by the Spirit of God and evaluates everything in the light of truth not in the light of one's own personal relationships, preferences, or the benefit one may receive. It is the natural and earnest breathing of a sanctified heart: Lord, if there be any way of wickedness in meplease reveal it. As you create space by releasing what is no longer serving you and is not truly aligned, you will allow new guidance, energy and support to rush in. The transformed life is a loving life. While of these signs are you experiencing at the moment? Does it begin to accuse? "But be transformed," it's used of a caterpillar becoming a butterfly, and the transformation that takes place in our Christian lives really from what we once were into what God is now conforming us to become. Dedication wont produce a transformed life. Hodges says, Whatever action one takes, in or out of the church, they should stand up under scrutiny. Dont be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (12:21). What! What is your way and your course? of God and He will renew your mind and thereby transform your behavior. Rather, perfection is realized not in deed, but in loving holding my heart continually before my Master and Lord. You really dont know how much this has helped me already. He looks upon the rules of piety not only as tolerablebut desirable; yes, more desirable than gold, fine gold; yes, much fine gold. My horoscope let me know Im in a period of transformation.. Im not opposed to it either, already letting go of people and things. His point is simple: the transformed life is a life of service. 1. Indeed, many divide here again; they would be content to have some of their sins destroyedbut they cannot leave the lap of Delilah, or divorce the beloved Herodias. In the garden he entrusted himself to the Father, on the cross he reached out to the thief. #2 We turn to the laws, ordinances, and ways of Christ. That is a bummer. Giving is to be done, Leading, or ruling, is not called a spiritual gift elsewhere in the NT. Suffering reveals to the extent we hold self-love. We must not adapt to or conform to it, but rather be transformed by a renewal through the power and guidance of God's Spirit and Word. Congrats on your new site. Until this transformation took place, I can say that anything I wanted would manifest effortlessly ! And suddenly we see we cannot be complete until his perfect presence joins with ours." The deeper reality of the principle of spiritual poverty is you begin to come to grips with the fact that you cannot affect change within yourself. We are to be compassionate toward others with cheerfulness or graciousness. He says with Paul, Lord, what will you haveme to do? [Acts 9:6] Anything, Lord! Prophecy is a gift which does not function today. O conscience! They would have their lives savedbut still would have their lusts. Now, a godly mans judgment is for the ways of God, and that is not only the absolutebut comparative judgment. The believer needs to respond properly to experience transformation of his life. When evil thoughts assault the soul, the soul must immediately take refuge in its Creator, persistently entreating Him to come unto its aid, whereupon He dissolves them straightaway, as wax is melted by fire." I've struggled with a lot of things that controlled my life. The sound convert takes a whole Christ, and takes Him for all intents and purposes, without exceptions, without limitations, without reserve. There are characteristics that all of life on earth share. A dead thing can feel no pain. It is not a life that curses others like in voodoo and other pagan religions. Our mind will be quick to tell us that things are goingwrong and even perhaps that we are doing things wrong. Paul begins talking about love, the highest Christian virtue. Your purpose is being re-assessed and evaluated. Hebrews 5:8 'though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered. The principle of Abba Evagrius puts things in stark clarity. So many of our relationships are created on the foundations of need, control and co-dependency and we dont even realise it. I am reading this article a year on from when you wrote it. I took months (literally) to wrestle with scripture and read some of the best thoughts behind discipleship. True Christian love does not involve a softening of ones attitude toward evil (Hodges, p. 369). How is David taken up with the excellencies of Gods laws! Lately my thoughts have been pretty optimistic and seem to point me in a better direction. They divide what God has joined, the King who rulesand the Priest who saves. This will feel new and unfamiliar so be gentle with yourself during this time. Together with log cabins, pine trees and snowy mountains . ****THIS IS BASED ON A SERMON SERIES that was preached at Summerside Community Church. But the sound convert desires holiness for holiness sake, and not merely for heavens sake. Thank you for sharing as this has made me realize a few important things about life. It can also be translated as service. The unsound convert takes Christ by halves. The essential elements of a transformed life: 1. In the dream a well-respected man of God looked at me and said to those standing around while pointing at me, There is a great vision for the church within that young man, but he has not suffered enough, nor been persecuted enough for it to be defined yet., I woke up with a start. All resonates with me at the moment since i am facing lot of issues from my career to emotional blocks from last Aug16 till date, really a long time, my patience is now coming to an end..dont know what i am going through but yes the points you have mentioned really resonates with me. I spent less time wandering and more time doing. Reading this was so soothing to my soul. Love it!!! If you wish to ask a question about a given blog, email us your question at x. Hi Connie, such a beautiful post, many things to note down and that are supportive to me. A mind set on the things of the flesh is one set on death (Rom 8:5-7). The ramifications of this command as regards our personal, family, business, social, or church experience, are as extensive as they are important (p. 276). They are, through His grace, freely devoted to His service. A few years ago, I had a dream. Transformational leaders are constantly open to innovation wherever it may arise. Let not the blood of his soul be required at your hands. True, the flesh will rebelyet the prevailing part of his will is for Christs laws and government, so that he takes them up not as his toil or burdenbut as his bliss. I no longer need to ask God should I do this, or should I do that. Required fields are marked *, Our mind will be quick to tell us that things are going, Many of us act from a space of fear and need and this old way of being can no longer survive as you start to transform. The heart which once was set against these, and could not endure the strictness of these bonds, the severity of these waysnow falls in love with them, and chooses them as its rule and guide forever. The believer needs to respond properly to experience transformation of his life. When God touches the hearts of His chosen, they presently follow Christ, and, though drawn, do freely run after Him, and willingly devote themselves to the service of the Lord, seeking Him with their whole desire. The transformed life is a patient and prayerful life. And the funny thing is, as soon as I stopped fighting, as soon as I let it all go an eases myself into the unknown with gentleness and an open heart, I feel supported. This refers to elders, those who lead in the local church. Isaiah cries out that he will go to the people as he is purged of his iniquity. Inside each cell, atoms make up molecules, which make up cell organelles and structures. The understanding assents to them all as holy, just, and good (Rom 7:12). In this way I fulfill Pauls injunction to pray unceasingly. We do not help others so that people will be impressed with us, so that we are able to sell more of whatever products we sell, or for any self-serving reason. If you take your attention off the external, you will soon return to a state of inner balance and reconnect with the peace within you. They might call you to express parts of yourself that you have been suppressing. Thank you so much for this incroyable informations! This is exactly what God wants, for us to be "conformed to the image of his Son" (Romans 8:29) and "transformed into his image" (2 Corinthians 3:18). , then you do all you can to help them change. Yet desires are not enough. Cranfield suggests that Paul is probably referring to those in a church who tend the sick, relieve the poor, or care for the aged and disabled (p. 627). They cannot be cruel to the right eye or right hand. They may call you in to uncharted territory, to leave a relationship or to pursue a new career. 2, p. 607). In suffering you learn what He suffered. This makes sense but i fear it means the end of my relationship. Entreat me not to leave You, or to return from following after You. II Corinthians 4:16-17 Therefore we do not lose heart. We should aim for our actions to look truly good to whoever observes them, that is. New Love (vv. I love this post. Bringing our attention within ourselves and stepping away from the external world is a natural part of the transformation process. It is not clear whether he is calling this a spiritual gift of not. Two blind men cried out to Jesus, Have mercy on us, O Lord, Son of David! (Matt 20:30). The seven characteristics what makes an organism living are: Environmental responses, cells, change and growth, reproduction, having complex chemistry, and homeostasis and energy processing. Sending you lots of love & light x. Wow Connie, so beautiful. 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